- Allow plenty of play time/recreation/friends time
- Allow time for fun
- Encouraging rest & sleep. Some physical exercise can help sleep
- Help your child to physically relax – cuddles, story times, baths, massage
- Aim for healthier food and drink
- Be mindful of TV/Radio news; be prepared to switch off
- And alongside this, be mindful when talking with other adults about events as children absorb more than we think
- Be prepared to seek some support for yourself; this will help you to be able to be a strong support for your children
- If you are concerned or feel that behaviours are increasing, contact your GP, local community health service (who provide a range of counselling) or one of the telephone help lines
- Talk about feelings with a friend or trusted adult
- Hang out with friends
- Listen to your favourite music
- Do some exercise with a friend or family member (running, dancing to music, riding a bike, going for a walk)
- Make something by drawing, painting, sewing, knitting or cooking
- Have a warm bath/shower
- Do a quick relaxation exercise
- Write in your diary
- Use positive self-talk such as:
I am safe now
I was strong to survive that
I have people who can help me
I have done a lot of things well before - I’m sure I can again